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So everyone, I write this in hopes to get the perspective of some members who might be going through the same thing, or have been. Here's the scoop:

A friend of mine told me about this girl, named Whitney, that was getting to know him, he has a gf already, and she requested him on myspace. After hearing about her, I thought it would be cool to get to know her and I have been talking to her for about a week 1/2 now almost two weeks, and have been talking to her about meeting up. I was in town near her house one night and we met up, without her parents knowing... and that is the problem right there. Both Whitney and I like each other but her mom doesn't like me, even though she has never met me. Her dad doesn't say much and her mom is over protective. I have told her that I will meet her parents and talk with them, I will basically do whatever to meet Whitney again and spend time with her, long story about it, but I feel a good connection going on and don't want to lose it. She is a minor 16 y.o.a. to be precise. I have just turned 20 and can understand her parents protectiveness. I am just wondering if there is anything I can do to make her parents allow her to see me or atleast give me a chance to prove myself to them?

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be respective to her and them and make them realize u think she special. always works. parents love me and thats how i do it
 

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Let her parents drive your balt. That'll do it lol


Nah for real though thats the best thing you can do is try to get in good with the parents but if you want there respect you can't do things they dont want you to do. The best bet for you is to respect there wishes but have Whitney bug the **** out of em haha. That way you respected there wishes and they see that.
 

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Let her parents drive your balt. That'll do it lol


Nah for real though thats the best thing you can do is try to get in good with the parents but if you want there respect you can't do things they dont want you to do. The best bet for you is to respect there wishes but have Whitney bug the **** out of em haha. That way you respected there wishes and they see that.
in short, respect
 

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I dated a girl once, and her parents hated my guts, I ended up getting in a fist fight with her dad and everything, but we still loved eachother...

I understand it's a little harder when she's a minor and her parents can tell her what to do.

basically, just be down to earth with them don't be too crude with them, but don't be all fake and kiss thier asses either, my most recent ex's parents loved me to death, they would've done anything for me, I had to aquire that over time, but that's how i did it.

I'm more of a rocker type of guy and her parents are country folk, so there was room for criticism between us, but they saw that i was a good guy, and down to earth, and they started to like me... now if they can realize how much of a **** up thier daughter is things would be alright lol. sorry for the rant
 

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yeah, only thing you can really do is be respectful and show them you dont have bad intentions. it may take a while for them to come around, but if you guys have a good connection they will see that eventually.
do that even if you do have bad intentions. figured that should be cleared up just in case
 

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cuz ya know, parents dont need to know all that goes on, they just need to know what keeps them satisfied and not givin you constant sh1t
 

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yeah normally when that happens you gotta try and play it like it never happened. thats what i did and the parents still ended up liking me even after i left that *****
 

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So you're saying you like the girl your friend has been talking to?
That was my thought. lol


Dude, if her parents wont let her see u, then theyre helpin u out. Trust me, you DO NOT want a 16 year olds problems. You're 20, uve been there already, why go back? Not to mention when u start boinkin her, u got all those problems. Another reason, u turn 21 soon, she doesnt even turn 18 for 2 years. How is that gonna work?

My advice, which is the best, would be to wait til ur 21 and start datin some fine ass girls at the clubs where theyre smarter, hotter, better in bed, and not 100% attached to u at the hip.
 

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But if ya do something film it just in case you dont last then send the tape to her mom so you can get pay back for the shit she gave you
haha that'd b perfect except for the child porn charges, but hey, thats just a thought
 

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Its not the fact that I am not able to hangout with her, but I am just trying to find a way to meet her parents so that they will trust me... Whitney already knows that I am not trying to get action and leave but rather make a long term relationship.
 

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That was my thought. lol


Dude, if her parents wont let her see u, then theyre helpin u out. Trust me, you DO NOT want a 16 year olds problems. You're 20, uve been there already, why go back? Not to mention when u start boinkin her, u got all those problems. Another reason, u turn 21 soon, she doesnt even turn 18 for 2 years. How is that gonna work?

My advice, which is the best, would be to wait til ur 21 and start datin some fine ass girls at the clubs where theyre smarter, hotter, better in bed, and not 100% attached to u at the hip.
True i agree with this. Just step ya game up man. Shoot for older women or around the same age. You do not need that drama in your life.
 

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take em all out 2 dinner at some good place
 
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