That does not give one care if someone calls me an A-hole or anything like that. Being in a relationship that has been a long one there are times when you two go at it, my g/f will say I am a d**k or A-Hole or something haha and I just say "so what." Than she well come back with "you really just dont care do you? you could care less if someone calls you this or that?." I just say, nope I sure dont. That is just one example, I get it from others too, mostly friends just joking but for some people they just do not understand how it does not bother me. I guess they are just upset that words dont mean anything to me that are like that and i wont sweat it one bit if called something.